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Blaire Waldorf & Gossip Girl
Would I choose my hobbies over my work? My hobbies and my work are both important to me equally. If I had to choose between them, I would choose my work so that I can finance my hobbies. I believe in transaction cost economy - it doesn't always have to be a trade off. We just need to strike a balance.
Another lesson I learned from Billy Bonzai is the importance of balance. You can't always have the best of both world. You can choose to pick one and disregard the other but if you can have a bit of both, why wouldn't you choose that?
As for me, there are some subjects that I really like however there are some subjects that I completely abhore. Naturally I spend more time about the subjects that I do like. While I spend more time whining and complaining instead of working on the subjects that I don't like. Likewise there are also people that I really like. So it's very easy for me to help them,work with them, and give them the benefit of the doubt. While there are people whom I don't like so much - for valid reasons - and therefore it is very convenient for me to be prejudiced about them.
No matter how I try to avoid it, I will have to come face to face with the things that I don't like. That's just how it works. My plan of action is to get as much positive energy from doing my likes and use it as my power to face my dislikes. For my bad subjects, I ask help from people whom I like to ease my suffering. For the people I don't like, I use all the positivity in me to put a smile on my face when I deal with them. It is so hard to overcome a dislike. But I think my POA is working alraedy. I have swallowed my pride and admit that I was wrong about some people. While I am still continuously hanging on to my wits in liking some subjects. It's a work in progress. I think it'll work.
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